A WOMAN ( The fuel that runs the world)
A woman is by far the most beautiful creature on earth...fascinating and unique her purpose is.
A woman is high esteemed despite the trials, negativity energy and discrimination that surrounds her; a woman has been labeled the weakest vessel, and this may appear to be true but her strength lies on the inside... A woman's strength is within not without.
A woman is a pillar, she is the ultimate strength for anything if it has to succeed and even when there is so much injustices and inequalites as the world suggests, she has stood her ground and maintained her position which enables her to always succeed.
A woman is the Magnet that pulls all the good things together which is why it's often said that behind every successful man is a woman and I would love to add, who has not listened to the negativity of any sorts...sacrificing herself for the cause and this has been so even in successful organizations and countries.
A woman is magical, her heart is warm, she cares and shares... she is not self centered; her children, her husband, her parents, the church, the community are catered for as she offers herself. She stretches her hand to the poor.
A woman is self made just like the proverbs 31 woman that wakes up before daylight, she eats not the bread of idleness, her price is far above rubies and yes, a virtuous woman is like the merchant ships.
A woman has these three important things that are absent in men; menstruation, the ability to become pregnant and lactation but she is not limited to that... There is so much more to a woman than bearing children and nursing them...a woman is a leader in all aspects, at the front and better still at the back, she is an encourager, a teacher, a home maker (proverbs 31:11 " the heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he will have no need of spoil ")
A woman is a coach, a mentor, a motivator, a warrior is a woman, a hustler is a woman, an inspiration and yes, a woman is a QUEEN (slay if you like!) when she smiles, the world lights up...her smile is like the rays of the sun in the morning, she is beautiful, she is colorful like the rainbow... Soft and silky... Her skin is velvet, her hair is as a flock of goats that appear from Mount Gilead, her teeth like a flock of sheep that are even shorn, which came up from washing. So poetic Solomon was, just borrowing his words; her neck like a tower of David built for an armoury, the very reason why men leave their parents and ask her hand in marriage.
Woman you are great, arise and shine like the star that you are, take on the world!
Be intentional about yourself... Everything and all that I mentioned above begins with you. Be deliberate about growth; you have to decide that you want to grow and grow in all aspects say spiritual, intellectual, relational, physical and financial aspects. And say yes to opportunities that come your way, this unlocks your potential and please do away with emotions, this can be a hindrance to growth, despite how much pain you have or how you feel, step up and show up...... Shine, you're a star.
Discover your purpose in life and nurture it; this is normally something you do with ease and are passionate about. Don't , again I say don't compare yourself to anyone ,you're unique, embrace it. How will you achieve your purpose?, be strategic and see how to get it done and have values that people will experience from you and this helps people to get into the culture that you are trying to create and lastly though not least, build relationships and don't take people for granted, be kind and gracious to them, get a coach and a mentor, someone you will be accountable to( I have Charity Kwatampora my humble butt kicker)
Again woman arise and shine!
The fuel that runs the world, doesn't matter how you call her, mother, sister, daughter, grandmother, mother -in-law, daughter -in-law...well as long as its a woman.
Monday, 29 January 2018
Thursday, 25 January 2018
BEING LOVED
Loving someone is Very simple and doable because it springs from the heart and spreads onto the other person. You understand how well and important the person you love is and why you love them the much that you do. All the questions in your heart are answered...actually maybe u may even never wonder why you love them. It might be because they're your spouse, your child, your best friend, your neighbor, a class mate or even someone I haven't mentioned. Whoever that person is!
Loving someone makes you happy, joyous, Complete, excited, and all the other positive emotions but also sometimes mad, and honestly I have never understood why I can love someone and be mad at them at the same but it has happened to me million plus times; this comes as a result of the desire for one's love to be reciprocated, understood and not be taken for granted.
a question to all of us is... why love with the hope that you will be loved? I can't answer that right now because it's a desire I have always had and I still do!
It's easy to love someone that loves you back.
On the other hand, being loved is receiving and this comes differently and it's perceived differently as well and I guess it's because of different personalities.
Today I perceived being loved at a completely different angle;
On 1sept 2017, I gave birth to a very handsome baby boy. I love him with everything that I am, firstly because I bore him... I carried him in my womb and he has some attributes which stem from me. I do everything to see that he is well, I wash for him, iron his clothes( I don't think he even notices let alone caring whether they are ironed or not) but I do it anyway, I feed him, spend long hours awake, change his diaper...he even often pees on me, destroys the towel with weapons of mass destruction (poop) just when I have finished giving him a bath and I actually laugh about it, everything he does is amazing to me and I really really love him.
" Our heavenly Father loves you the same way baby," I thought to myself today and it made so much sense and I felt loved and so happy and joy sprang from my inner being. I felt complete and somehow all the answers I have never gotten fell in place and I felt renewed. I thought to myself, "the same feelings I have towards Alpha Myles is the same way God feels about each one of us . We have his attributes according to Genesis 1:27, in his image we were created.... This made my face radiant and I wanted to jump up high and spread my legs... Too much joy it was that I felt and then this reminded me of a scripture that says that a mother can leave a child they are nursing but God can never forsake us... ( paraphrased) . Now that am a mother I can understand this perfectly well because I can not leave my boy but also this showed me how being loved must make people feel.
I can not wonder why God has loved us so much; we are his image, his own...and like I, he doesnot mind cleaning our mess and that's why while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
I can tell you exactly how it feels to love and better still am in position to tell you how being loved feels because I perceive it and I know it's amazing...a feeling I can't fathom because when God loves, he does and he is never mad. Paul in his letter to the Roman's said that when sin increases, Grace overflows, I may liken it to changing my boy's diapers. When his diaper is wet and dirty... I change him to a dry and clean diaper....Grace makes us clean...and it's our father's love.
Loving someone is Very simple and doable because it springs from the heart and spreads onto the other person. You understand how well and important the person you love is and why you love them the much that you do. All the questions in your heart are answered...actually maybe u may even never wonder why you love them. It might be because they're your spouse, your child, your best friend, your neighbor, a class mate or even someone I haven't mentioned. Whoever that person is!
Loving someone makes you happy, joyous, Complete, excited, and all the other positive emotions but also sometimes mad, and honestly I have never understood why I can love someone and be mad at them at the same but it has happened to me million plus times; this comes as a result of the desire for one's love to be reciprocated, understood and not be taken for granted.
a question to all of us is... why love with the hope that you will be loved? I can't answer that right now because it's a desire I have always had and I still do!
It's easy to love someone that loves you back.
On the other hand, being loved is receiving and this comes differently and it's perceived differently as well and I guess it's because of different personalities.
Today I perceived being loved at a completely different angle;
On 1sept 2017, I gave birth to a very handsome baby boy. I love him with everything that I am, firstly because I bore him... I carried him in my womb and he has some attributes which stem from me. I do everything to see that he is well, I wash for him, iron his clothes( I don't think he even notices let alone caring whether they are ironed or not) but I do it anyway, I feed him, spend long hours awake, change his diaper...he even often pees on me, destroys the towel with weapons of mass destruction (poop) just when I have finished giving him a bath and I actually laugh about it, everything he does is amazing to me and I really really love him.
" Our heavenly Father loves you the same way baby," I thought to myself today and it made so much sense and I felt loved and so happy and joy sprang from my inner being. I felt complete and somehow all the answers I have never gotten fell in place and I felt renewed. I thought to myself, "the same feelings I have towards Alpha Myles is the same way God feels about each one of us . We have his attributes according to Genesis 1:27, in his image we were created.... This made my face radiant and I wanted to jump up high and spread my legs... Too much joy it was that I felt and then this reminded me of a scripture that says that a mother can leave a child they are nursing but God can never forsake us... ( paraphrased) . Now that am a mother I can understand this perfectly well because I can not leave my boy but also this showed me how being loved must make people feel.
I can not wonder why God has loved us so much; we are his image, his own...and like I, he doesnot mind cleaning our mess and that's why while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
I can tell you exactly how it feels to love and better still am in position to tell you how being loved feels because I perceive it and I know it's amazing...a feeling I can't fathom because when God loves, he does and he is never mad. Paul in his letter to the Roman's said that when sin increases, Grace overflows, I may liken it to changing my boy's diapers. When his diaper is wet and dirty... I change him to a dry and clean diaper....Grace makes us clean...and it's our father's love.
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